Monday, June 18, 2007

Zack Harrison Memorial Music Monday: Anniversary of my unceremonious dumping edition.

Update: Mr. Shain weighs in.


Today, I think, marks the day the exbf dumped me. I'm not gonna lie, it's been rough going, but I think I'm going to pull through. Someday.


I wrote this super long, whiney ass post about everything, then realized it was crap. The exbf sucked in a lot of ways, but it's all in the past. Bygones.

This week's break-up playlist:

Lover I Don't Have To Love - Bright Eyes
Littles Things - Lily Allen
Song for the Dumped - Ben Folds Five
Handle With Care - Jenny Lewis
She's Got You - Patsy Cline
Somebody That I Used To Know - Elliott Smith
Single Again - The Fiery Furnaces
I'm Sorry I Love You - The Magnetic Fields
Let's Not Belong Together - Pete Yorn
How Come You Don't Call Me Anymore - Prince
High and Dry - Radiohead
If I Ever Feel Better - Phoenix
Don't Think Twice, It's Alright - Bob Dylan
Broken One - Luke Doucet
Alternative to Love - Brendan Benson
Lovers Need Lawyers - The Good Life
Pictures - Sia
Why Does It Always Rain On Me? - Travis
The One That Got Away - Tom Waits
I'm A Broken Heart - The Bird and the Bee
Come Pick Me Up - Ryan Adams
The District Sleeps Alone Tonight - The Postal Service
Smile - Lily Allen
Let It Die - Feist
I Am Trying To Break Your Heart - Wilco
I Don't Love Anyone - Belle and Sebastian

Hopefully sometime soon I'm finally unheartbroken playlist:

Better Together - Jack Johnson
Sweet Thing - Van Morrison
Us - Regina Spektor
Sundress - Ben Kweller
Gamble Everything For Love - Ben Lee
Thirteen - Big Star
In A Little While - U2
Power of Two - Indigo Girls
How Can I Tell You - Cat Stevens
Inside and Out - Feist
First Day of My Life - Bright Eyes
Always Love - Nada Surf
Parentheses - The Blow
Dream - Alice Smith
I'm The Man Who Loves You - Wilco
This Will Be Our Year - Ok Go
Maps - Yeah Yeah Yeahs
Piazza, New York Catcher - Belle and Sebastian
Ambulance - T.V. on the Radio
I Will Follow You into the Dark - Death Cab for Cutie
Let My Love Open the Door- M. Ward
I'll Be Your Mirror - Clem Snide
Such Great Heights - The Postal Service
Love, Love, Love - As Tall As Lions

13 comments:

Mr. Shain said...

i can't believe it's only been a year and he's already married with a kid. that's gotta sting.

The [Cherry] Ride said...

Oy, sorry to hear about all that. But great e-cards!

blythe said...

mr. shain - i will end you. facebook has made no such mention of a child or marriage, but thanks. remember when i told you the story about him crying over you? i thought you were on my side.

cherry - e-cards are great, aren't they?

Mr. Shain said...

blythe, uhm, who sent you those e-cards this weekend? wait, that was me. e-cards are great, ergo mr. shain is great. btw, i'm totally writing a post about making him cry now.

blythe said...

shain, um, those cards have been all over the blogs, buddy. catch up. but of course you're great. like gangrene. i wish you weren't kidding about the post.

Clinton said...

"Bygones" is totally the way to do it when it comes to break-ups, in my opinion. That, and lots and lots and lots and lots and LOOOOTS of liquor.

Also, you're fast becoming my favorite mix-tape maker. The inclusion of Big Star and that particular song by Phoenix on your lists are only helping your cause.

5 of 9er said...

Love the labels! Some days whiney posts are good.

NathanWind said...

boo fucking hoo. its been a year. plenty more cock in the sea. by now you've idealized the realtionship and masturbated. the best part is that after you take care of yourself you remember why it didn't work out in the first place. no more baby batter on the brain (thank allah for Chris Elliott). its enough now. move on.

blythe said...

clinton - oh, i've been very good about the lots of liquor part. a little too good. not that i remember or anything. and thanks! if only i could parlay my love of a good mix into a real job. 8th grade heaven!

9er - oh, yes. and there'll be more.

nathanwind - your sensitivity is devastating.

Mr. Shain said...

ok, the post about making your ex cry is done. complete with linkage to your wonderful and under-read blog.

Jess said...

It's amazing the difference a year can make. Hooray for bygones.

Colleen said...

We've all been there, right everyone? Right. I don't want to be to much of a cheeser so I'll stop there. But one more thing: everything passes.
And those e cards are awesome.

blythe said...

shain - thanks, yo. if only you had pics of him in the leotard. if only.

jess - oh yes. this year has been something else. it can only get better, right? so i keep telling myself...

colleen - thanks.

it sucks, alright, but at least i lost some weight out of the depression. so, i got that going for me.